why guys ard me like to hold themselves in such a 'i-know-all', 'i-can-handle','dont worry abt me' position to impress me?
today i had a unexpected visit from an old friend.. not exactly unexpected, but his visit today was not made known to me. hence i was minding my own activities,when he suddenly turned up at my house. it's not that i dont welcome him,but this out-of-plan thing is quite a big turn-off for me. i know there are girls who like unexpected surprises,but honestly i prefer to have some pre-planning or clue prior the event.
as i ponder on his behavour,i realised the guys i meet these days are 'this type' - insensitive to a girl's preference, yet they are trying to get a date with her. Come'on, guys.. stop trying to impress a girl when u r not sensitive or tactful with her preferences.
.. hmm.. i have a high expectation? but this kind of sensitivity is not even in my list! This is the very basic requirement which i think all guys should have,esp when he is going after a girl! How do you expect a girl to consider be in a relationship with you, when you are already positioning yourself as 'dont need to share-I-will take-care-of all' attitude during friendship?
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