19 Dec 08 - The older the guy, the less initiative he is

i really had such exciting day today - last minute work requests,office Christmas celebration and helping out in another cg.. sometimes i just hope i can drive/ride a bike so i can get fr place to place faster.. office celebration was so happening and fun that some of us, who were supposed to leave early @ 7pm, actually ended up leaving at 8pm.. in the end i had to rush from office to the cg i've agreed to help in, feeling abit tipsy after some glasses of refreshing self-prepared cocktail (it's very NICE!)

i dunno why but we ended up having a 'buzz time' after MyHope programme.. what a gd topic - "The older the guy, the less initiative he is to ask girl out." we even 'concluded' that guys over age of 35 are only 20% initiative... :D

personally, i tend to agree too.. the guys who 'dare' to approach me these days are those younger ones (guess i ve the big sister's love?).. hence cant blame me to think gentlemen tend to be more 'introvert' while ladies are more 'extrovert' as both grow in age. i like what was shared - girls are taking more initiative to 'drop more hints' these days. (again, i wonder what is happening to the guys these days?).. but are we, single ladies, more 'desperate' these days? no, i dun think so.. in fact, there are increasing number of single ladies who are not planning to have any male partner since they can lead their lives so freely nowadays, not to forget that we are financially independent too..

but will J 'drop hint'? (i tot we've gone thru this before, recently??)
ok, let's face it. i'm still an ordinary female, perhaps with some level of pride. i do expect initiation to come from the guy but i'd also drop hint. however, if he dun get my hint,so be it. maybe he's just nt for me. maybe only time will tell.. being the J in me,i know i can try to 'forgo' this guy if he's nt responding.. ok, i know i'm demanding when it comes to courtship.. but hey, courtship is always the most memorable of all relationships. Guys tend to be 'lazy' after courtship, dont you agree? so, it's rightful to be demanding while it lasts :)