23 Dec 08 - Who is the real J?

how fateful.. after raising the reflection qn last night, someone msn me and planted a pondering seed in J..
those who know J .. J is
1) very kiddish, totally unlike her age..
2) very quiet lady
3) very talkative (as that someone said last night)
Wow,, talk about faces J really have the extremes..

ok i admit i'm a very PR person.. PR in a sense i'm usually one of the people in the group to 'warm up' the interaction (hence talkative impression). But hey, if no one warms up the group to keep interactions going, wont it be very awkward? or when i'm new to the group, how anti-social i would be if i keep to myself and only wait to be asked? i believe in rising up to the occasion.. of course if there's someone warming up the group well, i'd gladly step down.. (afterall i really dun belong to the 'spotlight')

speak about kiddish, maybe cos i've always been the eldest in the family line, i have to mingle with younger people.. but now that these younger people have grown up, this 'gift' of being young seems to be kiddish in their eyes (even my 12-yrs younger cousin can nag at me!) or maybe some parts (in fact, many parts) of me still prefers to be a child (that's a great childhood dream).. nothing wrong being a child, as long as he/she knows how to behave in the right time, right? dun worry, i wont pull your legs and wail in public for my Birthday present :P

then what is J really like? well.. i regard myself to be..wait, i have thses descriptions..look out for my responses in brackets().

~Mental Attitude~
Usually intelligent, you can see through the motives of a person. You have the ability to read the character of a person after a few meetings. (I do??.. that sounds scary.. beware you people!)
Blessed with a very high level of concentration and understanding, you can easily get to the root of any problem. (this i agree - if i need to get something done, you better DND lest i'd snap at you, everything can wait till i've gotten the whole picture)

~General Nature~
You can be quite rigid in your views. You make friends with a lot of difficulty, but once made, the friendship is sincere and forever. (Totally disagree - I make friends easily with all sincerity but cant seem to 'keep' them into my inner circle)
You are definitely not the kind of person who will back-bite and work against your friends. True to your words and feelings, you are not only sincere in front of a person but also even in his absence. (I leave this for you people to comment.. *better say YES!*)
You are drawn to meditation. You can be a loner and may lead an almost hermit-like existence at some stage in life. (True - that is the 'real' me.. really..)
You will also have a lot of interest in the material life. You may be inclined to accumulate a lot during your lifetime. (I'm nearly broke now.. does this make cents?)
You are a systematic and organised worker because you must get to the root of the concept before embarking on anything. (didn't i just agree so?)
Your strengths and weaknesses are not read very easily. The world knows and understands only that what you want to make it understand! (hey, i've a reputation to be 'read like a book' to maintian, ok?)

~Romance~
You seek refined and intelligent partners. Quite unassuming, you are not likely to boss over your partner. In fact, being a great student of human nature you will be able to exert a lot of control on your partner. (Haa.. that's VERY true i'm a great student of human nature!.. but control?? unto what you want others to undo to you..)
You start a bit late but pick up fast. You soon learn very ingenious way of getting to know men and can lead them on to a merry chase! This satisfies your ego. But, when you do make the final choice, it is with great care. Once you get serious with a man you will be totally devoted to him. (wow, this thing is freaking me out.. how true.. but how late is late?)
You will very rarely be jealous of other women.You will seldom have time for such thoughts, but if you find him insincere you can leave him without a second thought. (true- i've too many things in my mind to care abt 'competitions'..let's simplify things and Let God be my Judge)
Not interested in sex for the sake of it, you can be led into it with a lot of patience. (hey.. we are so NOT going into that area for discussion..Totally P&C!! SKIP!!!!)

~Marriage~
You marry late, but divorces are very rare with you. Your marriage will be considered as a model marriage. One, you have the ability to see through your partner and decide accordingly. Secondly, you are generally very beautiful. You are endowed with a charm which keeps your husband tied down to you for eternity! (Amen, that's a GREAT prophesy! Marriage is SACRED to start with!)
You can handle your home and children in the most unconventional way.You may try strange combinations and arrangements and also make them look good. (No comment - not there yet)
You will be able to handle guests in a most remarkable manner and can hold forth on any subject on earth. You can converse with children as if you are one of them and you can talk to an eighty-year-old as if you are of the same age group. (Of course! i'm very PR and versatile person, remember??)

.. ok that's it, people.. who is J to you?? (I think I can start a pool of votes on this :D )